"Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate."
Mark 10:9
Getting married at Mater Dolorosa
We celebrate this sacred union in our beautiful sanctuary, where couples exchange vows before God, their families, and the faith community. Our priests guide you through this transformational ceremony, helping you understand that your wedding is not only a personal commitment but a spiritual calling. Through the sacrament, you receive grace to grow in love, raise a family in faith, and serve as witnesses of God's enduring love in your marriage and community.
In the guidelines section below, we will go over the mandatory rules for getting married at Mater Dolorosa Church. Being a church rooted in tradition, these rules are non-negotiable. The Church fits 500-550 people so please plan accordingly.
"I wanted a timeless, elegant celebration of our union and there is nothing more breathtaking and memorable than this 100+-year-old church in New Orleans. Mater Dolorosa Church graciously offered their courtyard and Parish House for the reception. My guests loved the convenience of having it all in one place, and with such easy access to the rest of the city. I was able to have a grand, romantic ceremony and a fun, festive reception. It was perfect!"
Evan and Danielle Martinez
"Dear Ms. Maria and Team,
We just wanted to take a moment to express our heartfelt thanks to everyone who helped make our wedding ceremony so special. From the very beginning of the planning process to the final “I do,” the support, care, and dedication from the coordinators and church staff truly meant the world to us.
Everything was handled with such grace, professionalism, and genuine kindness. The attention to detail, the smooth coordination, and the welcoming spirit made our day not only beautiful but also stress-free. We felt surrounded by support every step of the way, and we are so grateful to have shared this important moment in our lives at Mater Dolorosa.
We've attached a few photos from our photographer that capture the beauty of the church on our special day. We hope you enjoy them as much as we do!
Please extend our deepest gratitude to everyone involved. We feel incredibly blessed.
God Bless,
"...My grandmother attended grammar school there and was actually married at the church on the very same date as us, May 9th, 1952. We feel incredibly blessed that she was able to attend our wedding this year at 94 years old!"
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Agreement
We ask that every bride and groom meet/contact with our wedding coordinators before signing an agreement stating that you have read these guidelines and will abide by them. Before signing the contract, you must have the name and address of your officiating priest or deacon. Also at this time you will be required to pay your $700.00 deposit this will reserve your date.
Officiant
The priests of Mater Dolorosa celebrate the weddings of parishioners living within the boundaries of the parish. If the bride and groom are from another parish, they must get a letter from the bride's pastor giving her permission to get married out of her parish. All couples must contact the priest or deacon marrying them at least 6 months prior to the wedding to make arrangements for the Sacrament of Marriage. Each couple is required to attend a Marriage Preparation Program approved by the Archdiocese. Information about such programs can be obtained from the Family Life Office at (504) 861-6243 or FAX (504) 866-2906.
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Fees
Fee for parishioners is $700.00 plus $200.00 fee for our wedding coordinators. Parishioner must be registered more than one year, and the parish must receive the weekly donation envelopes. Non-parishioners the cost is $1,400.00 plus $200.00 for wedding coordinators. The wedding coordinators will be at the rehearsal and the day of the wedding, but this amount does not include cost for the musicians. There is a $700.00 non-refundable deposit which is due when the church is booked to assure the day and time you have chosen. The balance, along with the wedding coordinator fee of $200.00, is due no later than 1 month prior to the wedding.
However, because it is a teaching of the church that sacraments are not for sale, there is a totally free option. It involves a ceremony that consists of 4 and only 4 people: the bride, groom and two witnesses. It should never cost you anything to receive a sacrament from the Catholic Church, including weddings. The above fees are mainly due to the maintenance of Mater Dolorosa.
Times of Wedding
Wedding times are: Fridays starting at 6:00 p.m., 6:30 p.m. or 7:00 pm. Saturdays starting at 11:00am to 1:00pm. or Saturday starting at 6:00 pm, 6:30 p.m. and 7:00pm. There can be no weddings on religious holidays, civil holidays, Christmas week, or Holy Week.
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The Wedding Liturgy
The liturgy must be that of the Roman Catholic Church's Rite of Marriage and in accord with the Guidelines for weddings of the Archdiocese of New Orleans. Kneelers are provided for the bride and groom, best man and maid/matron of honor on the altar. The rest of the wedding party will be seated in the first pew of the church. Music for the wedding liturgy, including preludes and postludes, must be in keeping with the sacred liturgy of the Church and liturgical guidelines for music (see Music section). In the celebration of Holy Communion, only the persons on the altar will receive under both species. The Blood of Christ is not served to the entire congregation.
Sobriety
No-one in the wedding party or guests are allowed to show up intoxicated and become unruly. If the officiating priest suspects intoxication, he has the authority to stop the ceremony. Mater Dolorosa will call the police and have the unruly person removed from church. No refund will be given or can be expected.
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Photography
Photographs and videos are welcome in church, provided they do not become a distraction during the liturgy or impede the movement or flow of the liturgy. Please check with the priest or deacon, either at the rehearsal or before the wedding ceremony concerning any restrictions they may have. You may have 15 minutes ONLY after to take pictures.
Flowers & Decorations
There is no limit on flowers in the Sanctuary, however at least 2 arrangements must be left on the altar for the weekend Masses unless you are not having flowers. Decorations may be brought in one-hour before the ceremony. Aisle runners and candelabras are not allowed. No kind of adhesive is to be used on the pews or any church furnishings. Any decoration that the priest considers inappropriate for church will not be allowed and removed. For safety reasons, blowing bubbles, throwing of rice, birdseed, potpourri or flower petals inside or outside of church is not permitted. Also, pews are not to be cordoned off in any way. Any seasonal decor already in the church must be left in place, along with all bulletins, pamphlets and signs. This includes any pro-life literature and signs that is in the church at the time of your wedding. The church must stay like it is found. If this is going to present a problem, it is best that you do not get married at Mater Dolorosa Church.
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Music
Music and singing have always been known to be an essential element of the liturgy. All music selected for weddings is to be recognized liturgical music. You MUST use our musicians. The organist is Steve Waddell his fee is $300 his contact number is (985) 264-8341. We have an organ and music equipment that is over 100 years old. Because of this, there is no negotiation. NO Jazz Band allowed in the church. They must be outside. It is your responsibility to contact the musician as soon as you book your wedding with the church. Please stop by on Sundays at 10:30 Mass and listen to them and meet them.
Rehearsals
Rehearsals are an important part of the wedding and should not be taken lightly. It is not a time to party. You are in church and should be reverent at all times. The partying begins at the rehearsal dinner and reception. All rehearsals are held, usually, on Thursday or Friday @ 6:00 p.m. and should last no longer than 30/45 minutes. You must schedule your rehearsal ASAP. Please contact the church office (504) 866-3669 or the wedding coordinator Joel Jurgens (504) 650-6369. It is imperative that you be on time. It is your responsibility to have everyone here at least 15 minutes before scheduled rehearsal time so that we can start on time. We also ask that you leave church as soon as the rehearsal is over. We have a rehearsal form click here. You must fill out and return to us a month before the wedding date. Please email to jurgensj@bellsouth.net / materdolorosa@arch-no.org.
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Parking
Parking is available in the yard, where there is a handicapped ramp leading to church. There is also parking on the street surrounding church and in the bank parking lot across the street during non-banking hours, but please do not park in the ATM line.
